
Assorted rants, posts, support, whatnot for those of us who deal with eating disorders, recovery from them, and participation from a real, loving, involved Creator! He's amazing! "Arise!"
Friday, May 31, 2013
Thursday, May 30, 2013
"Funhouse Mirrors"
Wednesday, May 29, 2013
Monday, May 27, 2013
Sunday, May 26, 2013
Soup du’jour (Tears of our enemies)

Saturday, May 25, 2013
Advice From Don Nielson...
Advice…
(As answered by Don Nielson, Co-Founder and Chair-Elect of The National Eating Disorders Association, Seattle, Washington)
1) What eating disorder(s) have you personally experienced in your life?
My daughter was sick for 14 years from age 11-24, but has recovered and is now married and a mother of two.
2) What was your lowest point concerning it/them?
We had an intervention with her at age 21, after we had run out of options and were losing our other two children because of our constant worry about our daughter.
3) How has God brought you through it/them?
We prayed a lot during all those years. Our prayers were eventually answered.
4) In what ways does God specifically help you in day-to-day living?
God constantly supports us and is a strength to lean on, even when things seem hopeless.
5) What advice, spiritually, would you give a female or male currently afflicted with eating disorders, food, weight and body issues?
Pray for the strength to overcome the illness. Pray for the ability to re-connect to your family and friends.
6) What advice, physically, would you give a female or male currently afflicted with eating disorders, food, weight and body issues?
ED’s are killers. Don’t focus on weight or appearance, focus on nurturing your body with healthy food that will support your living a healthy life.
7) What advice, emotionally/mentally, would you give a female or male currently afflicted with eating disorders, food, weight and body issues?
ED’s are a manifestation of some other problem or problems. You will need help to be able to understand those and to treat those.
8) What has/have been a scripture(s) that has/have helped you through, giving you hope and peace?
All things work together for good through our Lord Jesus Christ.
9) What advice can you give someone afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns food?
Food is not the issue, it is something else. You must find out what that something else is, before you can recover.
10) What advice can you give someone afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns food holidays (i.e. Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc.)?
These are stressful times and a time when you must show your strength. Dish up your own plate and don’t worry about what others do.
11) What advice can you give someone afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns stress?
People afflicted with ED’s are constantly in a state of stress. That won’t change until the root cause of the problem is identified and treated.
12) What advice can you give someone afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns swimsuit (summer) season?
Probably something to avoid as it will just add stress.
13) What advice can you give someone afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns exercise?
That’s part of the illness and don’t worry about it. However, don’t use it as a way to lose weight, but as a way to stay physically healthy. There is a big difference.
14) What advice can you give someone afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns family/relationships?
These are tough. In the family, it is important for family members to study information about the illness and recognize that eating/food is not the problem. They, therefore, need to not focus on that issue alone. Family will always want you to eat enough to live and that is to be expected.
15) What advice can you give someone afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns personal issues?
Don’t know what to say here.
16) What advice can you give someone afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns therapy?
You will need therapy to get better. Find someone you really like and who has the capacity to understand you.
20) Any other comments, advice?
ED’s are not anything to play with. You need to take the issue seriously and you will need help to recover.
Friday, May 24, 2013
Tree Pose...
Advice...
(As Answered by Dr. Gregory L. Jantz, Ph.D.
Certified Eating Disorder Professional, Founder and Director, The Center for Counseling and Health Resources, Inc.)
1) What advice, spiritually, would you give someone, male or female, currently afflicted with eating disorders, food, weight and body issues?
There’s always hope! Psalm 5:12:” The Lord is faithful to all of His Promises and loving towards all He made.
2) What advice, physically, would you give to someone, male or female, currently afflicted with eating disorders, food, weight and body issues?
The physical body needs time to heal. Metabolism and digestive issues- work with an eating disorder expert who understands it’s more than your weight.
3) What advice, emotionally/mentally, would you give someone, male or female, currently afflicted with eating disorders, food, weight and body issues?
1) Renew the mind with God’s Truth. It does work- Truth can and will win!
2) Resolve past pain and issues; release forgiveness.
4) What has/have been a scripture(s) that has/have helped you through, giving you hope and peace?
Jeremiah 29:11
Jeremiah 7:23
Psalm 145:13
Psalm 5:12
5) What advice can you give someone, male or female, afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns food?
It’s not about food. Food is your symptom. It’s your “coping tool.” Food can be nourishment, not the “drug.”
Eat healthy=healing step
6) What advice can you give someone, male or female, afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns food holidays (i.e. Christmas, Thanksgiving, etc.)?
See attachment from our RD.
7) What advice can you give someone, male or female, afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns stress?
Have a stress plan proactive (where you have an action plan where food is not on the list).
8) What advice can you give someone, male or female, afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns image/swimsuit (summer) season?
You can rebuild a healthy body and image. (There’s a special group we do here that really helps with this).
9) What advice can you give someone, male or female, afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns exercise?
Have an accountability plan.
Balance= Health
10) What advice can you give someone, male or female, afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns family/relationships?
Stop blaming. Forgive. Choose to live as you. They cannot give you happiness or take it away.
11) What advice, physically, would you give to males currently afflicted with eating disorders, food, weight and body issues?
It’s not just a female issue. Separate male treatment is a must.
12) What do you have to say specifically to males who are currently afflicted with eating disorders, food, weight and body issues?
They are not alone. Ten percent are males. It’s not a female issue.
13) What advice can you give someone afflicted with eating disorders when it concerns therapy?
Whole person= Long term healing. Find your champion team!
14) Any other comments, advice?
There’s hope. Never give up. You will never regret making the journey.
Tuesday, May 21, 2013
Monday, May 20, 2013
Some Statistics on Media Affecting Eating Disorder and Body Image Issues...

Sunday, May 19, 2013
Glory to Glory (Not all right now)

Saturday, May 18, 2013
Wednesday, May 15, 2013
Sunday, May 12, 2013
Mother’s Day, Not Measuring Day

Happy Mother's Day!!!
Thursday, May 9, 2013
At the Pleasure of the Savior

Sunday, May 5, 2013
Saturday, May 4, 2013
Friday, May 3, 2013
A Listening Ear Ache?

Wednesday, May 1, 2013
The Airplane...
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