Just checked out the following:
Should Your Child Be Dieting?
While a controversial new children’s book has stirred up debate on the d-word, experts advocate healthy eating and exercise habits over quick-fix weight loss for kids
Kids have cell phones, CrossFit, and beauty pageants—why not diets, too? Child and adolescent weight loss is the topic of a controversial new book called Maggie Goes on a Diet, due out October 16. Targeting kids ages 4 to 12, the book chronicles—via a series of rhymes—the journey of an overweight and insecure 14-year-old girl as she transforms herself into a normal-size soccer star by eating right and exercising.
While it sounds like a source of sensible advice, the book’s forthcoming release has spawned a frenzy of criticism across news outlets, blogs, and Amazon.com, where commenters are outraged with the notion of familiarizing preschool and elementary-age children with the concept of dieting, and worried that the book will trigger disordered eating among impressionable kids. Eating disorders in children younger than 12 increased by 119% between 2000 and 2011, according to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.
Experts have universally condemned the book, arguing that it sends the message that being thin will automatically make you happy, healthy, and popular. Paul M. Kramer, the book’s author, who has no background in medicine or child nutrition, writes, “Losing the weight was not only good for Maggie’s health. Maggie was so much happier and was also very proud of herself.” And later: “More and more people were beginning to know Maggie by name. Playing soccer gave Maggie popularity and fame.”
Kramer defended his work on Good Morning America in August, explaining that the book is about changing kids’ eating and exercise habits, but that the word “diet” was used in the title to make the book more relatable for readers. “If I entitled the book Maggie Eats Healthy, somebody in a bookstore looking at a title Maggie Gets Healthy is really not going to identify with somebody who has been overweight or who has health problems,” Kramer said on the show.
Targeting Childhood Obesity with Tact
When approximately 12.5 million (17%) of children and adolescents ages 2 to 19 are classified as obese, according to the CDC, the epidemic can’t be ignored—but it can be addressed in a manner appropriate to maturing young people who are in the process of developing attitudes about their body image. “Weight—especially excess weight—is a sensitive issue in our society an has to be dealt with carefully in order to avoid damaging a child’s self-esteem,” says Susan J. Woolford, MD, MPH, medical director of the Pediatric Comprehensive Weight Management Center at the University of Michigan.
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“I think it’s best to stay away from the world ‘diet’ and to actually not engage in dieting,” Woolford says. “Diets are generally thought of as something people do for a temporary period of time until they achieve a certain weight, at which point they’d come off the diet,” she adds, pointing out that yo-yo dieting makes it harder over time to achieve a healthy weight and easier to pack on excess pounds.
In fact, research shows that when healthy foods are the focus, kids tend to weigh less. An Archives of Pediatrics and Adolescent Medicine study tracked 2,327 girls from age 9 to 19. Those who followed the Dietary Approaches to Stop Hypertension (DASH) diet, which emphasizes fruits and vegetables, lean meats, low-fat dairy, and whole grains without strict portion control, had an average BMI of 24.4, which is considered healthy, while those whose diets least closely resembled the DASH eating plan were classified as overweight, with an average BMI of 26.3.
On the other hand, diet foods and portion control don’t always spell long-term weight loss. In a study of 113 teens conducted by researchers at Children’s Hospital of Philadelphia and published in the journal Obesity, obese adolescents with an average age of 15 drank SlimFast shakes in place of their regular meals. While the study subjects lost weight in the short term, the diet shakes did not help the teens continue or maintain their weight loss until the end of the yearlong study.
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Instead of dieting, Woolford advocates lifestyle changes. “For example, if you increase vegetable intake for your family, that’s something you’d want to do indefinitely,” she says. “It’s concerning to have young child focused on weight, diets, and calorie counting; it’s much more advantageous to think about being healthy.” While obesity puts kids at risk for type 2 diabetes, breathing problems such as sleep apnea and asthma, joint and musculoskeletal problems, and social and psychological problems like discrimination and low self-esteem—concepts that kids might not understand—even young children grasp the general idea of being healthy, and parents can make changes geared toward this goal without negatively affecting their child’s self-esteem, Woolford says.
Hmmmm. Not encouraging. Ideally, yes, the message that comes across should be "health," not "diet." However, in this society, "destination: thin" is the loud voice drowning anything else out.
Assorted rants, posts, support, whatnot for those of us who deal with eating disorders, recovery from them, and participation from a real, loving, involved Creator! He's amazing! "Arise!"
Saturday, September 10, 2011
Friday, September 9, 2011
Exhale Already! We’re Beautiful- NOW
In the classic film, “Gone With the Wind,” the character, Scarlett O’Hara is seen clutching the bedpost, as she is corseted, squeezed into her big party gown.
Ah, yes. The famous lie surfaces, “Pain is beauty.”
But what if she realized that her beauty and value weren’t dependent upon the fashion and trends of the time? What is she discovered she was already beautiful?
Beauty trends come and go. Fashion is fickle. It changes on a dime. We may not clutch a bedpost now, trying to inhale ourselves to a 16 inch waist, but we are inhaling some kind of forced, unnatural effort for beauty’s sake.
Let’s exhale; we ARE already beautiful! Now! As is. Without anything added TO it!
Let’s accept ourselves and breathe the splendor of who we are! We are wonderful- and worth it!
Thursday, September 8, 2011
Fluffy Vengeance
When my uncle was a little boy, he once got in trouble for spitting on his siblings. After his punishment, he retreated to the corner of a room. He sulked while in this corner. When my grandmother checked on him, she asked, “What are you doing here?”
His response?
“I’m making more spit!”
It’s one of those humorous family tales, but it makes a point about getting our way, sulking and vengeance. How many of us act out in our lives? Are we pouting, sulking or even taking revenge on a situation that we have no business messing with in the first place?
“Vengeance is Mine… I will repay”
Romans 12:19-20
What’s driving us? What are we trying to prove? In trying to exert ourselves, through unhealthy, destructive behaviors, in trying to get someone back, we look just as ridiculous as these baby animals, both named Fluffy, here.
It’s just fluffy vengeance. And is that the best use of our time and lives? If there’s an issue going on in our lives, there are other alternatives to revenge and sulking: let God deal with it and “clean up our side of the street.” We have that responsibility for our choices; we, however, do not control another’s response.
Harboring a revenge fantasy lately? Are you “making more spit?”
What if your best revenge is, in fact, your best lived life? Don’t you think God would honor that?
Don’t be Fluffy; be fantastic! Make another choice; Make a higher Choice! Let God be God!
His response?
“I’m making more spit!”
It’s one of those humorous family tales, but it makes a point about getting our way, sulking and vengeance. How many of us act out in our lives? Are we pouting, sulking or even taking revenge on a situation that we have no business messing with in the first place?
“Vengeance is Mine… I will repay”
Romans 12:19-20
What’s driving us? What are we trying to prove? In trying to exert ourselves, through unhealthy, destructive behaviors, in trying to get someone back, we look just as ridiculous as these baby animals, both named Fluffy, here.
It’s just fluffy vengeance. And is that the best use of our time and lives? If there’s an issue going on in our lives, there are other alternatives to revenge and sulking: let God deal with it and “clean up our side of the street.” We have that responsibility for our choices; we, however, do not control another’s response.
Harboring a revenge fantasy lately? Are you “making more spit?”
What if your best revenge is, in fact, your best lived life? Don’t you think God would honor that?
Don’t be Fluffy; be fantastic! Make another choice; Make a higher Choice! Let God be God!
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
You're Being Watched...
Feel alone? Feel like no one knows or cares about your life?
I think it was a Bugs Bunny cartoon in which Bugs asked the question, “Did you ever get the feeling you were being watched?”
In this big, scary world, it’s all too easy to feel alone and overwhelmed. We all have those dark moments. We feel forsaken, hopeless and insignificant. But we are being watched…
“Since you were precious in my sight… I have loved you…”
Isaiah 43:4
Perhaps you’re facing a crisis or a decision that has alienated you from “everyone.” Perhaps you’ve been rejected by the people who were supposed to love you know matter what. God knows…
“Nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight. Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must give account.”
Hebrews 4:13
And God is acting in your life- right now…
“For the eyes of the LORD run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to show himself strong in the behalf of them whose heart is perfect toward him…”
2 Chronicles 16:9
God has not left you; He’s there, carrying your life.
Trust His Eyesight when you can see nothing except hopelessness, fear and despair. His Vision for you is always 20/20. He’s loving, guiding and helping you now.
“I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go: I will guide you with My eye.”
Psalm 32:8
Trust that yes, you are being watched by the most loving, powerful and patient eyes!
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Be the Rainbow
“Be thou the rainbow in the storms of life. The evening beam that smiles the clouds away, and tints tomorrow with prophetic ray.”
Lord Byron
Lord Byron
Sunday, September 4, 2011
Sidewalk- The Sequel
Need to remember this again...
“I walk down the street. There’s a hole in the sidewalk and I fall in. I’m lost; it isn’t my fault. It takes me forever to get out. I walk down the street again. There’s a hole in the sidewalk but I pretend I don’t see it, so I fall in again. I can’t believe I’m in the same place; still, it isn’t my fault. I walk down the street again. There’s a hole in the sidewalk. I see it, but I still fall in- it’s a habit. But now my eyes are open and I know where I am. It is my fault. I get out immediately. I walk down the street. There’s a hole in the sidewalk. I walk around it. Finally, I walk down a different street!”
What's a different step we can take right now? What's keeping us from taking that different step? Let's go somewhere different than where we've been.
“I walk down the street. There’s a hole in the sidewalk and I fall in. I’m lost; it isn’t my fault. It takes me forever to get out. I walk down the street again. There’s a hole in the sidewalk but I pretend I don’t see it, so I fall in again. I can’t believe I’m in the same place; still, it isn’t my fault. I walk down the street again. There’s a hole in the sidewalk. I see it, but I still fall in- it’s a habit. But now my eyes are open and I know where I am. It is my fault. I get out immediately. I walk down the street. There’s a hole in the sidewalk. I walk around it. Finally, I walk down a different street!”
What's a different step we can take right now? What's keeping us from taking that different step? Let's go somewhere different than where we've been.
Friday, September 2, 2011
Reinvention?
“…we know that an idol is nothing in the world, and that there is none other God but one.”
1 Corinthians 8:4
When I was a theatre major, I first encountered the 1927 Fritz Lang film, “Metropolis.” The silent movie comments on class structure and the industrial age. But what also resonates with me is how we turn to a “new and improved” kind of image; in this film, the character, Maria is the inspiration for this reinvented, “new and improved” machine interpretation:
Whether it’s “Metropolis” or more recently, “the Terminator” films, there still seems to be the same message out there; reinvent yourself as the better, prettier, thinner, more successful model. That’s the only way to compete in this “dog eat dog” world.
Is it?
This time of year always brings up the reinvention theme more strongly for me. We’re at a new school year again. From my own past experience, especially as a college freshman, bought into the reinvention promise’s lie.
If I didn’t reinvent, myself, translation, become thinner, I’d only be a failure and completely worthless. Changing myself, therefore, was my obsession; I had that unhealthy tunnel vision as my eating disorders developed and took me to more desperate actions and chaotic weight struggles.
I thought being “new and improved” would make my life perfect. It did not. I still had problems and pain. In fact, turning to my “reinvention promise” caused additional problems and pain, through eating disorders and negative consequences from my wrong choices. I didn’t count on that happening.
Did the reinvention promise deliver? No. Why not? What’s wrong with improving ourselves, after all? Nothing, if it’s not our idol or our god. That’s where things go wrong.
I once heard a definition of the word, idol: “anything you draw strength from.”
Hmmm.
No, losing weight and reinvention aren’t the only potential “idols” out there. We can look to anything, to anyone and wrongly turn them into our promised “answer.” They were never meant to be that for us, however. Only God is to have that place.
“…for I am God, and there is none else; I am God, and there is none like me.”
Isaiah 46:9
It’s distortion. It’s as distorted as this machine version of Maria here.
It may appear to have, to be the answer, but our chosen idol or god can never bring us what God can.
“You are to have no other gods but me.”
Exodus 20:3
Reinvention can be a slippery slope. Don’t draw strength from being a “better” version. Right now, flaws and all, we are worthwhile. Right now, as together or as messy as we are, we still need God.
Don’t get it twisted. Whatever we deem to be our answer is found in only God. It’s not beauty, money, success or relationships.
“Do not make any gods to be alongside me; do not make for yourselves gods of silver or gods of gold.”
Exodus 20:23
It is your first love, calling to you.
“…Yea, I have loved thee with an everlasting love: therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee.”
Jeremiah 31:3
Will we answer? Part of becoming the person each of us is created to be is relating to God as He rightfully is in our lives: first.
“I am the Lord your God…”
Exodus 20:2
Let’s let God do our reinventing then. He knows how to do it. In the meantime, let’s be ourselves, realizing we will change, but no matter how or when we change, God will still be God.
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