I admit it, I love guilty pleasure
chick flicks. And one which fully engages all of my angst-driven feminine drama
is the 1981 film, “Mommie Dearest,” starring Faye Dunaway as the legendary
screen star, Joan Crawford. The movie was based on the tell-all book written by
the star’s adopted daughter, Christina Crawford.
It’s now become a part of popular
culture. We’ve heard one of the most famous lines repeated in jokes and
commentary. According to the book and film, Christina endured a traumatic rage
episode in which her mother, having a meltdown, snaps when she sees a wire
hanger in Christina’s closet. I guess only satin and lace hangers were acceptable.
Whatever that represented to Ms. Crawford, she became unhinged, shrieking the
now famous line, “No wire hangers ever!” From there, Ms. Crawford throws all of
the dresses out of the closet, onto to floor and proceeds to beat Christina
with the wire hanger, all, of course, in an emotional upset. There was crying
and screaming from both mother and daughter.
I know, fun times.
So, why am I mentioning this? The wire
hangers made me recall an article I read on the fashion industry. Stay with me
now. The question asked was concerning why models had to be so thin for the
clothes the designers made. The answer given? Models were to be the clothes
hangers; and these fashions supposedly looked “better” on thinner models who
resembled those hangers. Yikes. And so, that’s why the sample sizes tend to be
size 0 or size 2 at the largest. Just try to find those same fashions, created
in larger sizes, even those referred to as “plus sizes.” Not exactly happening,
is it?
I started to make a connection between
this famous line and a better stance on our own body acceptance. Human beings
have far too much value to simply be regarded as hangers. It’s demoralizing to
be so casual about anyone’s body. We’re supposed to be the Temple of God, not a
display rack.
“Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit,
who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own.”
1 Corinthians 6:19
We are made in the image of God (Genesis
1:26). Anything which argues that reality dishonors our humanity and
dishonors God. There are some people who naturally possess that thin frame.
“The
body type portrayed in advertising as the ideal is possessed naturally by only
5% of the American females.”
The Renfrew Center Foundation for Eating
Disorders, “Eating Disorders: A Summary
of Issues, Statistics, and Resources,” published September 2002,
But the emphasis on this particular
body shape, unfortunately, has contributed to a proliferation of harmful body
image perceptions and disordered eating. This line of thinking encourages us,
indeed, to conform, no matter how destructive that may be to our health and
wellbeing. I struggled for a long time to be just like this model or that model.
I struggled with eating disorders for years because of it. And, for what? So I
could be viewed as a clothes hanger? How insane is that?
It’s not about blaming the fashion
industry, the models, the designers or the magazines. It’s about seeing how
valuable we are in God’s eyes, while rejecting any other lying argument.
“And be not
conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind,
that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.”
Romans 12:2
Do we believe God or do we conform to
a harmful lie? We can choose.
You can; I can. Concerning the argument
that we should be clothes hanger thin, each one of us can speak to that,
proclaiming, “No wire hangers ever!”
Copyright © 2015 by Sheryle Cruse
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