I’ve
noticed, as a person of faith, that 1 Timothy 6:10 often gets
misquoted:
“For the love of money is the root of all
evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and
pierced themselves through with many sorrows.”
Most
of the time, people insist the scripture states how money is the root of all
evil.
Nope.
As
human beings, we, so often, get money all wrong: its purpose, its pleasure, its
very existence in our daily lives.
Yes,
money IS an issue, for each of us.
And
we’ve all heard the phrase, “Money is no object.”
But
it turns out to be the exact opposite of reality, in fact, doesn’t it?
So,
let’s take a little stroll through money and see what it is about this sucker
that can bring so much promise… and pain.
Money
is an amplifier.
Do
you ever notice that what we spend our money on seems to indicate a kind of
theme, sometimes, an exaggerated, caricature-infused theme, to who we are as
individuals?
For
instance, if we look at our bank statements and see how we spent $3,000 last month
at GummyBears Forever.com, it might not be a gigantic leap to assume we have a
sweet tooth, or at least a gummy tooth. We like candy.
And
our “candy” can be anything.
Clothes.
Shoes. Drugs. Charities that help starving children or cute, fuzzy animals.
Creepy porcelain dolls that keep staring at you wherever you stand in the room.
What
we value is what, sooner or later, we buy, or, at least, try to find a
way to buy.
Look
at your own ledger right now. What is your theme?
Money
amplifies. If we want to improve and help a situation, it’s an amplifier
of that intention. If we want debauchery, it can, also, likewise,
amplify that as well.
And,
more than likely, we’ll need bail money.
It’s
not about shaming anyone for their guilty pleasures. We need a bit of that in
our lives, from time to time.
But
it speaks to the issues of our hearts and what they focus on. What is
that… truly? And be honest.
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows
from it.”
Proverbs 4:23
Is
it something that that can bring healing… or destruction? We have a say in
creating that reality. What will we choose?
Money
is a tool.
“… money answereth all things.”
Ecclesiastes 10:19
By
itself, money is neutral. It’s when the attachments and the associations come
onboard that we seem to run into problems.
For
some of us, that may mean we demonize money as “bad,” as something that only
encompasses greed and corruption.
Perhaps,
we were instructed as children that money is carnal, sinful, lustful.
Maybe
we were shamed for saving coins in our piggy banks.
Money
can fund charities, feed the homeless, cure disease, offer practical, needed
help the very second it’s needed, provided IF it’s allowed to function
in that capacity as a tool.
And
that largely depends on us.
Money
is a tool, like a hammer. We can build with it. It can be used to protect,
nurture, and help.
Money
is a weapon.
Or,
conversely, money, like that of a hammer, can be used as a weapon.
Yes,
a hammer can also destroy as easily as it can build; a hammer can kill or maim.
It all depends upon the person holding it.
Just
like money.
“For the love of money is the root of all
evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and
pierced themselves through with many sorrows.”
1 Timothy 6:10
And
again, we’re back to greed, along with its offspring like corruption,
extortion, murder, theft.
And,
before we get too smug with ourselves, reassuring ourselves that we don’t
engage in any of that extreme behavior, that we’re not criminals, we are
brought back to day-to-day reality, all the same.
Money
can be weaponized in smaller, more subtle ways. We can view money as a means
with which to control, exert power, and even perpetuate toxic love.
And
we can all be guilty of doing this within the context of relationships. We can
dangle the hope, the false promise over someone, assuring them that, yes, if
he/she agrees to certain arrangements or parameters, then, indeed, there will
be a payoff, making the whole thing worthwhile.
But
it isn’t that clear cut, is it?
After
all, there exists the phrase, “when you marry for money, you get what you pay
for” for a reason.
A
price will be paid.
And
what is the payment? Your life? Your health? Your sanity?
Is
that a fair trade?
Each
of us, then, perhaps, would do well to remember we can just as easily harm
someone by our attitudes and actions concerning money, as help them. Our
thoughts can determine our deeds.
Will
we allow ourselves to use money as a weapon, in big or small ways?
Money
is a Healer.
Before
we fall into despair that money is just too hopeless when handled by us mere
mortals, we also have the capacity to employ it as a healing instrument.
Again,
it speaks to opportunity… and our willingness to TAKE the opportunity.
“Withhold not good from them to whom it is
due, when it is in the power of thine hand to do it.”
Proverbs 3:27
The
decision to allow for healing is not passive. It requires deliberate,
conscious, action-filled caring and intention.
Money
is no object. Indeed, it is not.
Rather,
it is a portal of a fully alive and engaged life-sustaining force. But we need to
choose that life option for ourselves, each time we deal with money.
Will we?
Copyright © 2021 by Sheryle Cruse
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