“For as he thinketh in his heart, so
is he...”
Proverbs 23:7
I like to
play with words and phrases. A particular one recently popped up in my mind: the
benefit of the doubt.
We’ve heard
this expression before. It denotes largesse, a generosity to not write off a
person or circumstance so quickly. As it rolled around in my spirit, its opposite
phrase sprung to life: the detriment of certainty.
“Keep thy heart with all diligence;
for out of it are the issues of life.”
Proverbs 4:23
The old
adage goes, “there’s no reality, only perception.” And, indeed, isn’t
perception a major element in addiction? Genetics, brain chemistry and
predisposition factors aside, aren’t we also altered by our personal view of
life?
“... ‘According to your faith be it unto you.’”
Matthew 9:29
Doesn’t this
influence us as to whether or not we reach for something external?
Faith, be it
positive or negative faith, plays its role in self-fulfilling prophecy.
Scripture gives us examples of both persuasions. It’s not to judge someone for
their so-called faith failings. Rather, it’s to illuminate the reality of our
human condition.
We have the
capacity for faith, every single one of us...
“For I say, through the grace given unto me, to every man that
is among you, not to think of himself
more highly than he ought to think; but to think soberly, according as God hath
dealt to every man the measure of faith.”
Romans 12:3
That, I
think, may be the first pit stop to where we get off track. Some of us believe
we don’t have “enough” faith, we don’t possess “the right kind” of faith and do
not execute our faith “as we’re supposed to.”
But we’re
all in faith school. Each of us is on some personal learning curve. Many of us
have to unlearn some harmful stuff before we even begin to apply a healthier
version of this attribute. ALL of this is messy, sometimes embarrassing and
frustrating. And no one gets it exactly perfect.
Yet, “the
detriment of certainty” can kick around in our brains, convincing us only the
bleak outcome is that bankable sure thing for our health, our recovery and
every aspect of our lives and destinies.
“The
detriment of certainty,” a/k/a, a negative faith perspective, purports it’s
hopeless. Scripture tells us human beings can have their tendency to go to the
worst case scenario almost instantly.
“...‘We can’t attack those people; they are stronger than we
are.’”
Numbers 13:31
“And they spread among the Israelites a bad report about the
land they had explored. They said, ‘The land we explored devours those living
in it. All the people we saw there are of great size... We seemed like grasshoppers in our own eyes, and we looked the same
to them.’”
Numbers 13:32-33
“The
detriment of certainty” usually has its favorite words uttered, muttered or
thought within our sentences: “can’t,” “won’t,” “should” or “shouldn’t” (take
your judge-y, situational pick).
We’re all
guilty of possessing negative faith. However, it can be a stepping stone to our
educational, spiritual experience as human beings, provided we don’t stop and
camp at the disempowering site.
And, even
though this may sound like exhausting and frustrating news, it is, indeed, good
news for each of us. We don’t have to remain stuck where we are. We can
continue the transformation process.
Scripture,
likewise, also tackles the more positive approach in what and how we believe.
This exists when we choose to operate from “the benefit of the doubt,” of our
imperfect faith.
“...‘Go! As you have
believed, so will it be done for you.’ And his servant was healed at that very
hour.”
Matthew 8:13
“...‘Take courage, daughter,’ He said, ‘your faith has healed
you.’ And the woman was cured from that very hour.”
Matthew 9:22
We are
believing something. It’s ever fluctuating. Sometimes, we’re struggling,
especially concerning the myriad of issues surrounding our addictions.
Sometimes, we can only wallow in the imaginations which declare we are not
“enough” to deserve, practice and live healing.
And, if that
is where we find ourselves, Scripture has its healing balm of reassurance to
even that “perceived certainty...”
“A bruised reed shall he not break,
and smoking flax shall he not quench, till he send forth judgment unto
victory.”
Matthew 12:20
Spirituality
is never far away from choice.
“... ‘Do you believe that I am able to do this?’ He asked.
‘Yes, Lord,’ they answered.”
Matthew 9:28
Maybe,
getting real, without any pretty red spiritual bows tied on, we are not
honestly responding with a “yes.” Maybe our choice is the bleak “no.”
And, to
that, I say, even that defined “poor choice” is not beyond the Most High’s
reach.
“There are more things in heaven and earth,
Horatio, Than are dreamt of in your philosophy.”
William Shakespeare, “Hamlet”
Or, if Shakespeare doesn’t do it for you, how
about this?
“But as it is written, ‘Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard,
neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath prepared
for them that love him.’”
1 Corinthians 2:9
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