Thanksgiving
has a lot to do with inhabiting. Either people inhabit our homes or we invade
someone else’s place. Regardless, there’s the cliché stress, family issues and
close proximity which makes us want to throw the turkey through the plate glass
window. And that’s if we’re feeling generous. Let’s get real. Most of the time,
we want to aim it at a family member’s skull. Or is that only me?
Hello out
there?
We all give
mental assent to how Thanksgiving should have an emphasis on gratitude. But
practicing that? Well…
So, Psalm
22:3 doesn’t feel so great, especially when we’re this close to tearing Aunt
Mabel’s hair out, strand by strand.
“But thou art
holy, O thou that inhabitest the
praises of Israel.”
It’s hard to
experience gratitude, let alone, be vessels for God to inhabit our giddy
praises.
But we’re
instructed NOT to grumble, complain, hair pull or throw any feast out of any
portal.
“Do all things without
grumbling or questioning.”
“Do not grumble
against one another, brothers, so that you may not be judged; behold, the Judge
is standing at the door.”
Not feeling
great, are we about that, huh?
We’re not
the only ones feeling a bit miffed by the grumbling issue. After all, let’s do
a reality check. Aside from anyone within earshot of the family table, who else
is hearing us mutter away?
Two guesses.
The family dog? The family cat?
How about
God? Oh, yeah. Forget about Him…
God has a
history of dealing with this behavior…
“I have heard the
grumbling of the people of Israel. Say to them, ‘At twilight you shall eat
meat, and in the morning you shall be filled with bread. Then you shall know
that I am the Lord your God.’”
“How long shall this
wicked congregation grumble against me? I have heard the grumblings of the
people of Israel, which they grumble against me.
Likewise, you who are
younger, be subject to the elders. Clothe yourselves, all of you, with humility
toward one another, for “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.”
Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the
proper time he may exalt you, casting all your anxieties on him, because he
cares for you.
Now who
wants to engage in a food fight? Yep, in the middle of every hustle and bustle,
holiday party and excruciating family member, there is God, hearing about ALL
of it. And how often does He REALLY hear the words “thank you?”
Are those
crickets I’m hearing?
I’m all too
guilty of it as well. I admit it- I don’t thank God NEARLY as much as I SHOULD.
Despicable… shameful… petty…human…
Sigh. Yeah.
But before
we all go and crawl under some rocks, let’s just stop and think on a few
scriptures. God does not want us to be garden slugs. He does, however, want us
to be mindful-not perfect-just mindful.
That’s where
it starts. And it doesn’t have to take that much time or effort. So, let’s be
MINDFUL of these scriptures, even in spite of ourselves, even in spite of an
irritating family get together. Doable.
“I will praise the LORD according to his righteousness: and
will sing praise to the name of the LORD most high.”
Psalm 7:17
“Praise ye the LORD: for it is good to sing praises unto our
God; for it is pleasant; and praise is comely.”
Psalm 147:1
“I will bless the LORD
at all times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth.”
Psalm 34:1
And even
that last one, Psalm 34:1, is achievable if we look at it and separate the
scripture from our feelings. They don’t always have to match. We don’t
necessarily need to feel all oo-ey goo-ey. If all we can do is “go through the
motions,” out of obedience to God, I believe He will honor that.
And I
believe He starts with us WHEREVER we are in the process, let alone, holiday.
So, let’s
start, wherever we are this Thanksgiving; let’s be mindful of thanking God.
Just start by saying those two little words today. We’re all capable of at
least doing that.
Copyright © 2015 by Sheryle Cruse
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