“Let all things be done decently and in
order.”
1 Corinthians 14:40
Internet
surfer I am, I recently came across a meme which could be described as a drama
queen’s motto:
“I don’t want to be overdramatic. But
today felt like a hundred days in hell.”
Yes, within
the faith community, it is often agreed eternal torment is some kind of
reality, even if it is beyond our finite minds here and now.
Nevertheless,
we do ourselves a large disservice to ignore our own self-created and contained
versions of this most unpleasant torture. For indeed, if we’re honest with
ourselves, even those pious Christian versions of selves, we need to admit
something hardly “Christ-like” or flattering. Sometimes we like to create our
own little hells. And then we further enjoy tossing others- and ourselves- INTO
them.
This reality
can be the adjunct to our addictive natures. Or, more disturbingly, this can be
the addiction all on its own.
Let’s begin
with, perhaps, the easiest hell of the three we’ll explore: people.
Hell is Others:
This gets
right to our blame focal point. In some circles, that person is called “The
Patsy” or “The Fall Guy.” Scripturally speaking, this person is labelled even
more succinctly, but perhaps, more indirectly as “The Scapegoat.”
“But the goat, on which the lot fell to be the scapegoat,
shall be presented alive before the LORD, to make an atonement with him, and to let him go for a scapegoat
into the wilderness.”
Leviticus 16:10
Ah, yes.
Where would we be in life, were it not for this wonderful creature? Leviticus
has all sorts of thoughts on the scapegoat.
“And he shall take the two goats, and present them before the
LORD at the door of the
tabernacle of the congregation. And Aaron shall cast lots upon the two goats;
one lot for the LORD, and the other lot for the scapegoat. And Aaron shall
bring the goat upon which the LORD'S lot fell, and offer him for a sin offering. But the goat, on
which the lot fell to be the scapegoat, shall be presented alive before the
LORD, to make an atonement with him, and
to let him go for a scapegoat into the wilderness. And Aaron shall bring the
bullock of the sin offering, which is
for himself, and shall make an atonement for himself, and for his house, and
shall kill the bullock of the sin offering which is for himself.”
Leviticus 16:7- 11
The blame
game has been in place for a lon-n-n-n-g time. Scripture gets to the heart of
it. We have, I guess, a fundamental human need to affix blame outside of
ourselves, in the name of “making things right.”
We may not
acquire two bleating goats these days, but it is quite handy to have a person,
place or thing in mind which is the “reason” why we are miserable, struggling
or not what we deem we should be in life. Pin it on the scapegoat.
Only, upon
doing that, cliché reality alert, we avoid accepting any kind of responsibility
for OUR contribution to said mess/unhappiness. What is the familiar principle?
Not forgiving someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to
die. It doesn’t happen. We can drink our scapegoat beverage all the livelong
day and still...nothing. We are not victorious; we are not happy. And that
scapegoat is still breathing and skipping around our lives.
So, perhaps,
we ascertain then, we have constructed the wrong hell to fulfill our lives. And
that leaves the door wide open for our next option...
Hell is Our Own Minds:
Well, that’s
direct, isn’t it? But let’s go one step further...
Scripture
reached that conclusion long before Rimbaud did.
“For as he thinketh in his heart, so
is he...”
Proverbs 23:7
Self-fulfilling
prophecy (emphasis on “self”), speaks to the resemblance we, indeed, share with
our Creator by creating, well, anything,
self-focused hells included.
Here, we confront
our addiction for self-pity. You have it; I have it. We all can wallow and
sometimes, that wallowing overtakes us to such a point where, yes, “we feel
like hell.”
But, in all
of this “feeling like hell,” some of us soon find ourselves deviating from this
self-hell to another, more nebulous form. Perhaps we do it because, come on, we
get tired of blaming ourselves and believing we are the rightful cause to every
agony that ever existed.
So, we look
for another, supposedly, less painful source of this form of hell we seem to be
marinating in.
Hell is Vague Other:
And, like
the many forms we fill out in life, we eventually check this “other” box
option. The amount of confusion, ridiculous desperation and embarrassing
shenanigans all ensue as we careen into the clueless unknown of vague hell and why
we feel so bad in it.
Much of it,
not surprisingly, hinges on old favorites like jealousy, envy and the promise
of happily ever after disorder...
“We must picture hell as a state
where everyone is perpetually concerned about his own dignity and advancement,
where everyone has a grievance, and where everyone lives with the deadly
serious passions of envy, self-importance, and resentment.”
C.S. Lewis, “The Screwtape Letters”
C.S. Lewis, “The Screwtape Letters”
Or, as
scripture puts it...
“...envy
is rottenness to the bones.”
Proverbs
14:30
“For where envy and
self-seeking exist, confusion and every evil thing are there.”
James 3:16
And then,
sometimes, we just prefer not to answer the hell question...at all. It’s just
this nonspecific, but still, legitimate, torment hounding us. We are at another
unflattering location.
“A
land of darkness, as darkness itself; and of the shadow of death, without any
order, and where the light is as darkness.”
Job 10:22
It is here
where we discover-or avoid- the truth we enjoy a painful dwelling place. This
reality, however, does not have our Heavenly Father as the Entity granting us
His Power of Attorney. Instead, it’s more like this...
“Ye are of your father the devil, and
the lusts of your father ye will do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and
abode not in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaketh a
lie, he speaketh of his own: for he is a liar, and the father of it.”
John 8:44
If that
doesn’t sting, it should, at least, make us squirm in discomfort. I know it
comes across as offensive, especially concerning those of us who are nice,
well-behaved, good Christian girls and boys out there. I don’t know of too many
believers who enjoy being called a devil’s spawn.
But again,
scripture cautions our overconfidence...
“Therefore let him who thinks he stands take heed that he
does not fall.”
1 Corinthians 10:12
And, if our
version of “Hell is Vague Other” demonstrates
one thing, it’s the delusional arrogance which demands our unrealistic
expectations be flawlessly and completely met BY that “other.”
(Setting-
ourselves- up- for- disappointment launch sequence activating in five, four,
three...)
“Hell and destruction are never full; so the eyes of man are
never satisfied.”
Proverbs 27:20
There’s
nothing like the equation, entitlement plus unrealistic demand equals perpetual
frustration.
“What makes earth feel like hell is our
expectation that it should feel like heaven.”
Chuck Palahniuk, “Damned”
Chuck Palahniuk, “Damned”
I’ve often heard
the concept that The Most High sends no one to Hell; we, in fact, are the ones to
volunteer to go there ourselves.
Again, this
emphasizes the geographical place of eternal damnation. And, let’s face it, no
human being has a lock on that exact actuality.
But that
statement makes much more sense as it applies to our self-created Hells here on
earth. WE willingly sign up for any combination of these three types of torment.
That needs
to be remember as, in our self-created Hells, we might be tempted to
believe/blame Elohim for “doing this to us.”
Oh, really?
How, then,
do we explain The Most High of 1 Corinthians 14:33?
“...not the author
of confusion, but of peace...”
Or, The Most
High of Numbers 23:19?
“...is not a man, that he should lie...”
And, come
on, what do we come back with concerning
Acts 2:27?
“Because thou wilt not
leave my soul in hell, neither wilt thou suffer thine Holy One to see
corruption.”
Are we more
interested in worshipping our own miseries instead of the Creator of all?
Are we
addicted to our self-made, excuse-endorsing hells?
Are we so
hell-minded, there is absolutely no room for The Most High to be involved in
our lives?
“... I have set before
you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your
children may live.”
Deuteronomy 30:19
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